Freeze and missing parenthood [SOLVED]

I downloaded the vampires and toddlers update then the newest parenthood patch and installed them as instructed now it freezes when I load my game. It also says that the parenthood dlc is still downloading I'm not sure what went wrong

I tried reinstalling and I even tried fixing the update again. I tried removing my mods folder and it doesn't crash it just seems to stay in a never ending loading screen when I try to load my save file.

I reinstalled the Parenthood update and reinstalled the fix and that seems to have fixed it thank you for your help.