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ccf3447 wrote:I was directed by Carlos to come post a complaint that I was having with his attitude on another forum.  I wrote " and I noticed the admin is answering everyone else questions and I'm just wondering when he's gonna get to this one" 
I meant no malice, but he took it as such, even when I explained and I have no room in my day for it. Here you go Carlos.

Carlos wrote:
As I said, we are all volunteers, and you are implying that I respond to posts "selectively", which I have never done so far. But even so, YES, as I am a volunteer here, and I may do as I wish, theoretically. I can choose to respond to messages, but not to others. But that doesn't (necessarily) mean that I WILL do it.

As I said, if you find that responses come in too slowly, feel free to get your support elsewhere. 

Lady ElDi wrote:
I hope you can see now that Carlos, or any of the team, wasn't deliberately ignoring your post. 

ccf3447 wrote: 
If you don't wish to help, then don't (Well, you actually haven't). I wasn't implying that yall were being selective, just slow. You and I aren't the only one on this site nor are you the only person whose help I can get. As you noticed on that forum, there were other people who were exchanging ideas to help. This alone means that I don't specifically need your help nor do I want it with your attitude. So as I stated before continue on with your day. 

I explained why I said what I said and if it still bothers you then I suggest you take that frustration and go do something productive like help someone else out that is in the same bind instead of crying about your feelings to me. You were passively rude and this back and forth makes any help from you undesirable. I don't actually plan on responding anymore as I said everything I needed to say. Continue on with your day Carlos.

Why so personal ? 

ccf3447 wrote:If you don't wish to help, then don't (Well, you actually haven't). I wasn't implying that yall were being selective, just slow. You and I aren't the only one on this site nor are you the only person whose help I can get. As you noticed on that forum, there were other people who were exchanging ideas to help. This alone means that I don't specifically need your help nor do I want it with your attitude. So as I stated before continue on with your day.

I explained why I said what I said and if it still bothers you then I suggest you take that frustration and go do something productive like help someone else out that is in the same bind instead of crying about your feelings to me. You were passively rude and this back and forth makes any help from you undesirable. I don't actually plan on responding anymore as I said everything I needed to say. Continue on with your day Carlos.

Admin wrote:

ccf3447 wrote:If you don't wish to help, then don't (Well, you actually haven't). I wasn't implying that yall were being selective, just slow. You and I aren't the only one on this site nor are you the only person whose help I can get. As you noticed on that forum, there were other people who were exchanging ideas to help. This alone means that I don't specifically need your help nor do I want it with your attitude. So as I stated before continue on with your day.

I explained why I said what I said and if it still bothers you then I suggest you take that frustration and go do something productive like help someone else out that is in the same bind instead of crying about your feelings to me. You were passively rude and this back and forth makes any help from you undesirable. I don't actually plan on responding anymore as I said everything I needed to say. Continue on with your day Carlos.

Hi ccf3447,

Sorry to hear about your experience on the Forum. Are you referring to me when you say "admin"? Because I can guarantee that I stopped getting back to the usual help requests on a regular basis a while ago.
If you were referring to the Moderators and Helpers of the Games4theworld Community, it's clear that you do not have any right to call them "just slow" or to tell them to "go do something productive". That's plain ignorance.
These are all people that work their asses off to help people like you. And that includes Carlos. All they ask in return is that you threat them with respect, because respect has to come from both sides.
These kind of people are very hard to find nowadays, so instead of taking things for granted, you can be a little bit nicer. These people spend their time - hour after hour - to help others out for free. But you most likely don't see that, because you come here, get what you want, and then leave again.
If you don't like Carlos' nice and helpful attitude, and don't want his help, then so be it. Just say so, so he can continue helping people who actually appreciate it. Don't provoke more than that.
And if you don't appreciate our help at all (which I conclude from your tone), feel free to say so in your opening post, so we don't have to "waste" time on you.

And if you don't like this place at all, feel free to contact EA with your problems directly. [sarcasm]I'm sure they'll be more helpful and reply much faster.[/sarcasm]

Let me know if you have any other concerns.

(And relax, have some Tea of Love and Respect )

And I, personally, reserve myself the right to be selective, since I do not know almost anything of Sims 4 either Mac, I just don't even look at the questions there, but I do not believe that it makes what I make of a lower value. Like admin said, anybody is more than welcome to contact EA for help, maybe someone there will have the luck to find a "ready answer" to your problem, because that is what you get when you go to them, slow responses and ready made ones. If your problem is not into their little boxes, you can forget about it, maybe they let you "give the game back" and refund you if they are in a good mood, otherwise you are on your own!

So, stop complaining where it's not applicable and or wait to be assisted, or look for help somewhere else.

No tea for you this time ccf3447!

Admin, Lady ElDi and Carlos, let's have some!